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Where Are Social Media’s Seat Belts?

In 2011, 15-year-old Rehtaeh Parsons was allegedly raped by four teenaged boys who were never charged or prosecuted for the crime.

One of those teenaged boys shared a photo of the incident with friends online. The photo was distributed widely among their school community and beyond.

As a result, Parsons faced intense bullying on Facebook and other social media. Boys would anonymously proposition her. Girls accused her of being a slut. She was repeatedly slandered.

Unable to further bear the ceaseless assault, last week Parsons hung herself in the bathroom of her family’s home.

If the story sounds familiar, that’s not surprising.

It was only last October that Amanda Todd’s suicide drew our attention to the perils of unregulated social media use. She also took her own life after facing intense online bullying as a result of a sexual assault.

Who’s next? Perhaps the 16-year-old girl from Steubenville, Ohio, who was drugged and brutally gang raped by members of the local high school football team last year. As with the other incidents, pictures were spread via social media.

Chances are, social media will kill her too. Continue reading

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Maybe Porn Is Better for Your Kid After All

Wolverine races through the jungle towards a group of dark-skinned thugs.

With that distinctive SNIKT sound, his adamantium claws slice out of the skin between his knuckles.

Wolverine leaps onto the nearest figure, a man in a wife beater holding a chainsaw. He sinks his claws into the man’s back and a thick geyser of blood spurts into the air and sprays a nearby tree.

With another swipe, Wolverine opens the man’s belly and innards erupt.

Then with an upward swipe Wolverine removes the man’s jaw along with a portion of his face.

This is just one violent scene of dozens from an M-rated game. In fact, there are five more guys Wolverine will disembowel in this scene alone.

I often wonder how an 8-year-old I know processes scenes like this as he plays them alone in his bedroom.

Adults have no problem interpreting this material as so-called “cartoon violence”.

(Truth be told, I love it.)

But to a young boy who hasn’t yet even been introduced to basic biology, this immersion into the macabre world of bodily mutilation must be at least very confusing, if not perverting.

Why do so many parents let this happen? We know better, after all. Continue reading

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Naomi Wolf on Porn

Insightful piece on the effects of porn on the male libido by Naomi Wolf in New York Magazine (The Porn Myth).

Reflecting on past projections of feminist Andrea Dworkin that the expansion of porn would turn men into sex-crazed lunatics, Wolf finds that, instead, men are mentally exhausted by porn and losing interest in the real female form:

The ubiquity of sexual images does not free eros but dilutes it.

Really interesting piece, and definitely worth a read.

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Why Am I So Into Porn?

I’ve been getting a lot of weird looks from friends, family, and colleagues lately every time I mention porn. And I’ve been talking about it a lot lately. You might even say I’m obsessed.

At first blush it might seem that I’m an enthusiastic consumer of the media. But really, I’m concerned about it as an intellectual subject.

Recently I’ve come to learn that porn is probably the world’s largest unregulated industry. It dwarfs all professional sports leagues combined with annual gross revenues that have been estimated to exceed $60 billion. Funny, then, that there’s no Porn section in the daily newspaper.

More and more, through its more moderate content and spinoff products, porn targets an ever-younger consumer. 11 is now the median age at which boys begin to use porn habitually; for girls it’s just a year later.

Porn is a disruptive force on so many aspects of contemporary society. I believe it’s pushed mainstream media, such as broadcast television and popular cinema, to become more explicit in their portrayal of sexual activities. Like a poisonous weed, we have let it grow in our cultural garden and its taste now runs through every food we eat.

Porn affects the behaviour of its consumers who tend to become more antagonistic towards and disconnected from their friends, family, and colleagues. There is a statistical increase in risky sexual acts such as anal sex amongst teens.

Research finds a strong link between pornography and sex-based crimes. For example, there is a correlation between films that promote pedophilia and a growth in child sexual abuse.

And porn manufactures a self-propagating feedback loop. Many porn stars cite early exposure to pornography as a reason they considered a career in the industry. Many others cite sexual abuse they’ve experienced, acts that were inspired by porn. Porn begets porn.

And once inside the pornography machine, it’s very difficult to get out. Many prominent porn stars, including Jenna Jameson and Belladonna, have shared their stories of repeated failed escape. Too many porn stars end up choosing suicide as a way out.

I believe, despite pornography’s strong influence on contemporary media and society, we tend to avoid analyzing and discussing it. Sex is an uncomfortable topic. When we talk porn, we drape it in euphemisms like “adult content” and make simplistic arguments about free speech. But pornography goes much deeper than that.

Pornography is more than an industry; it is a system of abuse and violence against women.

Pornographers produce with almost limitless constraints, without any sense of discretion and certainly almost no government or industry regulation.

Their products are destructive: on performers, consumers, families, and community. The only people who experience a net-positive benefit from porn are the producers and distributors of the content; everyone else suffers by it.

As a society I think that we have to ask ourselves to what extent we are going to let a burgeoning medium like pornography continue to influence our culture, our lifestyles, and our relationships. At what point do we recognize its size and power and draw a line? When will we regulate pornography? When will we establish mechanisms that control and limit the damage that it does?

Arguments of free speech and censorship aside, society needs to build a sense of balance into this medium so that performers are no longer victimized and its net-negative social and societal impacts are neutralized.

And that’s what I’m going to explore in coming months. I’ve reserved every fourth week of my new Yukon News Geek Life column for subject matter related to media, and until year’s end I think I’ll focus on pornography. I’m hoping to build some general awareness on the big-picture impacts of pornography, and also on how it works as an industry. I want to explore the human side, from every angle: producers, performers, and consumers.

To be frank, it’s a sickening topic to research. I’ll have to learn how to manage my time. I spent about 8 straight hours researching the industry the other day and was physically ill at the end of that long session. I’ll have to learn how to filter the information I discover for general consumption while struggling to remain somewhat objective. That’ll be tough.

In the end I’m hoping that my work will have a positive impact of some kind. Because we need to better understand the general impact of this medium on our society and culture, and learn how to manage that impact before it’s too late.

Wish me luck! (Or curse me, as many will. I get the feeling this is a Pandora’s Box many don’t wish to open.)

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Does Northwestel Need to Hawk Porn?


Just over two years ago Telus was badgered by the Vancouver Catholic community into removing themselves from the pornographic media industry. Just three weeks earlier, the telecommunications company had begun to offer mobile porn to customers: 3 bucks for a pic, 4 bucks for a video clip.

A massive ad placed by the church in BC Catholic, a weekly newspaper, decried Telus’ attempt to, “[hitch] its financial future to the abuse-ridden and pain-filled pornography industry.”

Odd, then, how every other major telecommunications company in Canada manages to continue to operate as cornerstone distributors of pornography.

Bell, Shaw, Vidéotron, and Cogeco all hawk volumes of explicit pornography via cable and satellite to their subscribers.

Locally, Northwestel offers porn on-demand, as a pay-per-view service, and as subscriptions to both the Playboy and Hustler channels.

At first blush, you might think that Northwestel innocently believes it’s important that Northerners have easy access to quality programs like Cum Stained Casting Couch.

But really, setting moral arguments aside for a moment, hawking porn just makes good business sense. Continue reading

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Porn Industry Getting a Free Pass?

I’ve spent some time trying to research various aspects of the global pornography industry, but have managed to learn very little about it. Most statistics published are either unsourced, or very outdated.

A page on TopTenReviews.com (Internet Pornography Statistics), for example, falsely claims to offer porn stats up to this year, but simply features a collection of stale data that seems to have been lifted from a second web site (Pornography Statistics), Family Safe Media, a reseller of “parental control solutions.” Family Safe Media lists their sources, but states” “Statistics are compiled from the credible sources mentioned. In reality, statistics are hard to ascertain and may be estimated by local and regional worldwide sources.”

The only real research into porn seems to be performed by a UK-based firm called Juniper Research, in a category they term, “Adult Content.” Not even Neilsen in North America is performing any analysis on the porn industry, despite the fact it clearly represents a considerable sliver of the media consumption pie.

All this leads me to wonder: has the porn industry been granted a free pass? Who is monitoring its progress, its content, and its influence, in North America? Is anyone evaluating its economic, social, and cultural impact? From what I can see, porn exists among us as a force we all like to turn away from, almost fearful of its prurience; or is it more that we have accepted porn as a core value of contemporary society?

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